Moskvitina Penza Biography
Natalya Moskvitina: “There is not a single woman who would regret the choice” the MK correspondent in Vladimir talked with the head of the pregnant women support fund, according to the current tradition in the spring, we talk with the head of the Women for Life Foundation Natalia Moskvitina. We talk about what we managed to do and invite Vladimirites to replenish the ranks of the volunteers of the fund.
How to convince a woman tuned to abortion to preserve pregnancy? Why does modern society consider abortion the norm? And is it possible to change something? About this and much more - in our material. Natalia Moskvitina. Photos from the personal archive by N. Moskvitina The right to choose - Natalia, in March the Fund turned three years old. Please tell us about what you managed to do.
First of all, it was possible to save the babies and their mothers. This cannot be evaluated in isolation from each other, because this is not just a report on the rescued fate of little people, but also their mothers, who could cross out all their future with this terrible step, this mistake. In this case, this choice between life and death, between future motherhood or its absence, is made correctly.
When a woman is sent to an abortion and advised her to take this step from all sides. At this moment, she is in a state of affect, makes this judgment in order to stop the pregnancy that has begun without a choice. The choice is when you look at life equally, its continuation or its interruption. You need to understand what interruption is and what you will have by preserving pregnancy.
In this case, women had a choice because they met support. Moreover, the participation of our fund does not end when the pregnancy remains, does not end when a child appears. The fund provides support within a year after preserving pregnancy. When the baby is performed for a year, you can evaluate what happened. And among women there is not one who would regret her choice. Moskvitina Vector of Movement - Among your like -minded people - the Commissioner for Child Rights in the Russian Federation Anna Kuznetsova, singer Natalya Podolskaya, singer Irakli, writer and TV presenter Daria Dontsova and many, many others.
How does the support of media personalities affect the activities of the fund? Today, the fund implements 10 projects aimed at supporting women in a reproductive choice situation. More burning hearts around the world are fighting to save life before birth under the flagship "Women for Life." These people openly say that each of us feels and understands. The fact that abortion is not a noble mission, although society often offers us an abortion as an act of mercy.
Including over an unborn baby. It is so absurd that when they begin to give an explanation to the natural course of things, everyone understands that this is exactly what he feels. It is very important when these opinions are spoke from the outside. Only in this case you can hear your own inner voice and set yourself the right vector of movement. This activity is needed in order for people to see the transparency of our activity.
We also conduct internal analytics, which is absolutely confidential. This is necessary so that we understand our audience, motives for interruption or salvation of life and could work more productively. The support of the fund does not end at the moment when the pregnancy is preserved. Moskvitina hear yourself - you say that you are fighting for the birth of children.
Why should it be fought for this? Saltykov-Shchedrin has a story about the conscience that they lost. And then, when she was offered, she was uncomfortable for everyone. As a result, she was given to the baby. Therefore, for the right to have your own child, despite the advice around and the pressure of society, we must fight. To hear yourself, to isolate yourself from the crowd - we help in this.
Each person is unique, and a lot of factors are triggered in the choice. In each specific situation, you need to hear, do not give assessments “good” or “bad”. Find out the main reason. What is a woman afraid of? Mom, men, lack of money. And when the answer is received, just make it clear that you are near. Almost everyone speaks the same reasons. It is interesting that the woman herself lays out on the shelves during the conversation what she wants and why.
By the way, you can become a volunteer by filling out an application in the “Volunteering” section on the Womenprolife website. It is important to offer specific help. And help is not in buying a crib, although this is also very important. And the fact that you can dial me at two in the morning. Human life is not appreciated by cribs, brands of bottles for feeding and other material things.
A woman stands at a crossroads and needs to be promised to be promised. She, tired, with two children, bewildered ... Any woman believes that she will definitely give birth to the second, third. Only now will deal with his problems. But the secret is that life is happening here and now, and problems are an integral part of life. It's already late". Our task is to make it clear that with the birth of a child nothing terrible will happen, but those rare and valuable minutes of happiness “despite” will happen.Despite the problems with work, mortgage and personal life.
It is important for a woman who is faced with a choice. Moskvitina concerns everyone - who are they, women who doubt it? This is a woman who have more fears inside than love than faith in oneself. A woman who constantly asks questions inside and does not receive an answer to them.
Women who consider abortion by the exit, because this opinion is imposed by society. This woman is often infantile because she wants to transfer responsibility to her husband, to her mother. This is a woman who dreamed of two children, but it seems to her that she can’t cope with one. This is a woman who seems to be that large families are marginally. This is a woman who is deeply unhappy inside.
We manage to convince this woman to believe in herself and start living in harmony with herself. Rejoice in motherhood and laughs, recalling minutes of doubt. It was the birth of children, and not abortion changed her life and made it possible to begin to her herself. I have not seen a single woman who would say: "I regret that I gave birth to a child." You do not ask a question.
There are much more large children, in comparison with which I am not at all large. I can only say that having given birth to the third, I suddenly understood some kind of unique tonality of a woman, some subtle elusive qualities in myself, which revealed only with the third motherhood. I realized that being a mother of one and two is a disaster, and it is really very difficult.
Only with the birth of the third I learned to find time for myself, I began to feel at ease, I realized that I had a tremendous experience, but I am not an old woman. This is colossally developing you as an administrator, the organizer. About the qualifications of a doctor, cook and psychologist, a chess and English teacher, I am generally silent. To be parents is an adventure for a long life, but to participate in this adventure is true pleasure!