Alexander Ananiev Biography Presenter

The path to family life, to the family happiness that we had to do, turned out to be incredibly important experience Alexander Ananyev and Alla Mitrofanov 28 votes: 4. Her spouses Alexander Ananyev and Alla Mitrofanova lead. In an interview for the "ABC of Waterie" they talked about their young family. Alla: Three years. Alexander: Throughout his life. Two different answers, but in fact there is only one, because I did not exist before meeting Alechka.

Not in a metaphorical sense, but real: Alexander Ananyev did not exist. This is the pseudonym that I had to take in the year when I started working on the radio. All this time I lived under an alien surname and, as it seems to me, someone else's life, not finding myself. All this time I was looking for God, and consciously. He came to the temples, talked with priests, they offered me to become a godfather, but at the same time I remained unbaptized.

And literally six months before meeting Alechka, he went to Jordan, to the place of baptism of Christ. I didn’t go to the pilgrimage, but in a press tour, as part of a group of journalists, but there, as they say, it was covered, and I prayed: Lord, how to find you? Six months later, I met Alechka. It was almost four years ago. I saw and immediately realized that this was my wife, and before meeting with her, I thought that it was too late for me to think about some kind of family happiness, since I have broken too much in myself and in my life, and now I just could not spoil my life even more than I have already ruined it, and not to spoil it to someone else.

When we first arrived there together - only having met, there were still on “you” - Father Igor came up to me, looked at me and said: “Take care of her. She is gold! He prepared me for this, we often met with him, talked for a long time. I remember that he, smiling, told me about the queen, and I tried on this role on myself. And when Alechka and I got married, I realized that living under a strange surname is wrong, and returned his own.

In fact, I begin my life again. Alexander: Who is looking at the passport? I know for sure that when people from that of my life try to find me on social networks, they are looking for Alexander Lavrov. For example, my daughter and I recorded a series of twelve tales of Sergei Kozlov to the music of Nino Katamadze in the year, the recording was successful, and recently the musicians from Minsk tried to find me, recruiting in the search engine: “Alexander Lavrov and his daughter Masha.” They could not find, because there is no more Alexander Lavrov.

As a result, they found and will use that record, but this is another story. Alexander: Yes, the second. We parted with the first wife in the year. Alexander: Not only in full, but I was very lucky. We, one might say, had an ideal Soviet family. It was, thank God, there is. God grant health to both my parents and Alechkin. Now we are thinking of arranging life in such a way as to live with parents.

Alla: Not in one apartment, but in one space, because they are geographically scattered in us in different places. Alexander: My parents live in the Nizhny Novgorod region, Alechkin in Kaluga, and we want to gather them together and return the way of life, which, it seems to me, was the norm in the 19th century when parents and children lived nearby. We have forgotten how to live with parents, the 20th century weaned people from this, and now I feel that I miss this.

Alexander: Yes, from the city of Dzerzhinsk. Once we presented his book with Fyodor Borodin, and he, not knowing that I was from Dzerzhinsk, spoke about the Soviet past and, in particular, said: “Imagine, in the Nizhny Novgorod region there is a city of Dzerzhinsk, in which there were not a single temple or a single chapel until the tenths of the 21st century, and people lived there?

Now in Dzerzhinsk in this sense, everything is fine, next to our house they even opened an Orthodox gymnasium, which is considered the best school in the city, and my mother, a non -church, but very musical person, learns to sing in a church choir. Parents were for you an example of love? I believe that today there are so many divorces, including because many in childhood have not seen a positive example of the family.

Either their parents got divorced, or they did not get divorced, but neither their love and respect for each other, the children did not feel love for themselves. Alexander: It seems to me ... Alechka will now give her answer, but it seems to me that it does not matter. Each of us has our own path, and how wonderful my parents, people pure souls, so I have been a disgusting person for fifteen years.

Although they raised. Probably, an example of parents plays some role, but first of all, it all depends on the person himself. Alexander: No, everyone has their own story. My parents have their own relationship, I have our own Alechka. I want to hug my parents, I pray that everything is fine with them, but to say that I want to learn from them ... It doesn't work. Alexander: nineties.

The parents have two of us, I and my sister. There are three cabbage dishes at home, because there is nothing more.

The city of Dzerzhinsk, in fact, is a working village, it is not clear how miraculously it was like a city then did not die. But now it’s kind of alive. You asked, and I thought: did I have a happy childhood? In the early nineties, I left for a year in the USA.I won the competition that one American fund held throughout Russia, and in Dzerzhinsk I won this competition. It’s probably a sin to complain.

What was happening in the country in the nineties, I remember and understand that in the province it was much harder than in Moscow. But it happens that in very wealthy families where there are no such problems that there are nothing to feed children and nothing to wear, children do not feel happy and use any opportunity to break out of the parental house at least for a while.

For example, on vacation they go to the camp, even if you don’t really like it, just to live for some time without parental control. And it happens that the material situation of the family is difficult, but the children are comfortable at home, they feel happy. Did you feel happy not during a trip to the USA, but in your parental house? Alexander: Yes. Would I like to return at that time?

In no case. Was I happy then? A very simple example. There was no money at all, and there was nothing in the stores, but when I, learning, seemed to be in the sixth grade, told my parents that I want to draw, dad-candidate of technical sciences, not an artist, not a carbon priest carrier-turned to knowledgeable people, asked what was needed for painting. He was told, he bought an ordinary terracotta oilcloth, she cost a penny, four sticks and put on me several canvases, pulling an oilcloth on them, and also bought and presented oil paints.

Immediately, as soon as I said that I want to draw! I graduated from the music school not because my parents wanted music at all costs, but because when we pass by the music school, I heard how they play on different instruments, and told my mother that I wanted to study at a music school. Then he wanted, and then, like most children, there were minutes when I wanted to quit what I was doing, but I had a diary in my music school, on the last page of which my parents signed for monthly contributions.

I looked at this page and understood that I had no right to throw any right, because with this money you can buy Zaporozhets-for some reason I thought so. Alla: Sashin's parents peered at every child and now peering into their grandchildren as well. They are trying to see what the child’s soul lies with, and help him develop in this direction. Specialists in the field of education, child psychology urge parents to understand the inclinations and interests of their children and develop their talents.

Sasha’s parents always raised their children, and now they are raising grandchildren. Alexander: Now mom communicates with her grandchildren very tightly and worries most of all if he suddenly notices that the child is not interested in anything. But if the child shows something interest in something, she will do everything to make this interest a development. Alla: And he will be the main ally of the child in this development.

This is her talent. Unfortunately, we have known each other not so long ago, only three years, but when I look at Vladimir Alexandrovich and Natalia Valentinovna, I can not stop. Really perfect pair. You ask if parental experience has an impact on the formation of our own families. Of course, he has, but does not give any guarantee. Sasha says about this. There can be a wonderful relationship in the parental family, but this is impossible to convey by inheritance as a tablet of happiness.

In the same way, the wedding does not give any guarantees. If we ourselves do not turn on, help each other, pull each other, plow over relationships ... Many do not like it when they say that the family is work, but here we are shooting the program “and there are two”, we have already shot more than a hundred programs. All the families we shot the program about, happy families, and everyone plows.

There is no other way. Neither happy parent families, nor education, nor any professional successes, nor wedding give us any guarantees of happy relationships in the family. Alla: My parents divorced when I was not a year old, and when I was seven years old, my mother got married, my brother was born after a few more years, I also call my dad, so in principle I can say that it was growing in a full family, but relations with the blood dad had a serious imprint on me.

I also wrote a lot about this and talked a lot. While I was trying to take out dad for the brackets of my life, my life did not work out. It took about fifteen years. Alla: Very rare, although my mother did not mind.